Surviving Summer as a Working Parent: Combating Guilt with Grace and Connection

Written By Ashley Beers

Summer brings sunshine, longer days, and for many working parents—a storm of emotions. While the kids are out of school, you’re still clocking in, juggling responsibilities, and trying to make the most of the season. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed or even guilty when you can’t be as present as you'd like. But here’s the truth: you are not alone, and you are doing enough.

🌞 Shift the Focus from Guilt to Grace

The guilt of missing out on weekday adventures or lazy mornings with your kids is real—but so is the importance of modeling responsibility, commitment, and self-care. Remind yourself that working doesn’t make you less of a parent. It simply means you’re showing up for your family in another important way. Replace self-judgment with self-compassion. You deserve it.

🤝 Prioritize Meaningful Connection Over Quantity

You may not have all day with your kids—but even 10 focused minutes can have a powerful impact. Try:

  • Tech-free dinners or breakfast together

  • Evening walks, even if brief

  • A “high/low” check-in before bed

  • Weekend rituals like pancakes on Saturday or a movie night Friday

Kids remember how we make them feel more than how long we’re with them.

🧠 Let Go of the “Perfect Summer” Pressure

Social media might make it seem like everyone else is spending summer break on beach vacations and Pinterest-worthy crafts. But real-life summers often involve busy schedules, late pickups, and messy moments. Give yourself permission to do what works for your family—even if it doesn’t look Instagram-ready.

🌱 Connection Comes in Small Moments

Use transition times—car rides, bedtime routines, grocery shopping—as chances for connection. Ask open-ended questions, share music, or let them lead a silly story. These mini-moments build strong bonds and lasting memories.

💡 Practical Tips to Ease the Summer Juggle

  • Create a flexible routine for kids (even if you’re not home all day)

  • Enlist help—whether it’s family, friends, or summer camps

  • Plan small “summer wins”: ice cream after work, water balloon fights, park picnics

  • Communicate clearly: let kids know when you’re working and when you’ll be available

❤️ You’re Enough

Being a working parent in the summer isn’t easy—but your love, presence, and effort are more than enough. Focus on connection over perfection. Your kids won’t remember a jam-packed calendar—they’ll remember that you showed up with your whole heart when it mattered most.

Call to Action:
If this season feels heavy, you don’t have to carry it alone. Reach out to one of our therapists today for tools, support, or just someone to talk to. Anchored In Hope is here to help you breathe easier this summer.

Written By- Ashley Wale-Beers, LPC-S, CCSP-ADHD

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